Becoming who you need to be -V.S.- Becoming who you are meant to be

Becoming who you need to be refers to changing or evolving to fit certain circumstances. In essence, being restricted by some external force with respect to the growth of your character and personality. What does it mean when you allow yourself to be restricted. In some cases, it means that you have learned a socially acceptable amount of discipline. In other cases, it could mean that you are allowing others to stifle your spirit. You are allowing yourself to be placed in to a box. You are taking whatever life throws at you and allowing it to conquer you rather than you conquering it. Don't allow yourself to be stifled. Become who you are meant to be. Don't let anything hold you back. Don't just accept the negativity in life, transform it. Use the negative, to invigorate you. Affirm yourself and proclaim that you are well able to overcome whatever is trying to hold you back. Decide, are you becoming who you need to be or who you are meant to be. Hopefully the latter.

As a woman, as a person there are certain limits that people like to place on you. But do you accept or reject them? Were you even aware that you had the choice? Well you do... have a choice. Exercise your right to control your own life . Be in control of you...